At the last stages of the war thousands of civilians who lived in the Vanni Region of Northern Sri-Lanka were killed, injured and disappeared. Surrenders of war and persons among detainees were gone disappeared.  When war intensified in late 2008, people of Vanni region started to move towards Mullaitivu district from other parts of Vanni. Daily they moved place to place to protect themselves from shelling and bombings, and finally they all came to bare lands where they found the darkness of the night is the only shadow that covers their heads. They loved the night as they could get some relief from the burning. Mothers kept the children under trees and damaged and unmoved abandoned vehicles to protect them from hot sun.  Final few months the sufferings intensified.  They only got kanji (rice porridge) to help them survive.  Then the kanji become salt-less and more watery. When kanji distribution was announced, children run with utensils to get it for their families. There were incidents where children who had gone to collect kanji were caught in aerial bombings and shelling.

In the final stages of the war, people could not bury the bodies of their dead family members. They left the bodies on the way and moved on. Young children missed from the hands of the mothers. There were incidents where people stepped on the bodies of the dead and ran to protect their lives. On 18th May 2009, the war ended.

Memorialising the people who died in the war and the grievances that they suffered is a right of the people. But the ‘Mullivaikal Memorial’ is dominated by politically influenced persons and designed according to their agendas. The survivors of war and ordinary people of Tamil community are not included as equal partners in the memorialisation process. Memorialisation should be people-oriented and a collective event observing the particular communities’ own traditions.

In order to transform the memorialisation from politicisation to peoplisation, North East Coordinating Committee (NECC) called survivors of war and the general public, and mobilised them to collectively commemorate the 10th year war memorial from their own places. The leaflets which were widely distributed in North and East areas by NECC  asked the public to ‘Plant a Tree and Remember Our Beloved ones’ to create permanent identities and also to ‘Eat Salt-less Porridge’ to collectively share the pain, sufferings and losses of the people.

A total number of 5000 coconut seedlings, 125 shade tree plants, and palmyra seeds were planted in remote villages of all eight districts of North and East including schools, hospitals, worship places and public places.  Along with war affected social groups – families who lost their beloved ones in war, family members of disappeared persons, war-injured persons, war widows, war orphans – grass root civil organizations, women’s societies, fisher and farmer federations, students, men, women and children were keenly involved in the events.

Special memorial services and poojas were organized in churches and in Hindu temples by war affected people. Villagers and neighbours joined with them. In Eachalavakkai village of Maanthai East of Mannar, a mother who lost her four children in war, treated the coconut seedling as a child and planted it at the village temple location on behalf of her children and other 26 people of her area who died in war. She adored the planted plant with flowers with a sense of respect.

It was observed that people of different generations participated in the collective commemoration. While elderly mothers cook “Kanji” at homes and collectively have it within the community, youth travelled by lorries and land masters with Kanji pots and served it in the streets and in public places. A 19-year old boy said, ’10 years ago, during the war, as a 9-year old child he used to stay in “Kanji” queues and there were times that he arrived with empty jug as Kanji finished before he reaches the server. A middle-aged man in Jaffna said, he could not forget the Kanji, as after having it his family members were killed in shelling. People shared their experiences in the streets while having Kanji. Some people took the Kanji in grocery bags for family members and neighbours.

It was observed, this sort of people-oriented memorialisation makes the people to take the ownership of memorialisation and develop solidarity among them and enables the people to widely engage in the memorialisation. A rough calculation reveals more than 25,000 people of North and East were involved in people-oriented memorialisation in 2019.

In two locations, the Sri Lanka Army also had Kanji served in streets even though they knew  it was for memorialisation. This attitude of army was welcomed by the people.