Sri Lankan men and rape: What the Sri Lankan media missed

I read with great interest this article in the Guardian about nearly quarter of men in Asia-Pacific admitting to committing rape according to a new UN study. As Sri Lanka was one of the countries that were a part of the study I looked around a little more and came across a few articles in the local media that had run with the title “14% of Sri Lankan men admit to rape”. It seemed that most mainstream print media, including Daily Mirror and Ceylon Today had taken the article straight from the BBC and to my surprise not followed up with this horrific statistic.

If they had bothered to follow up with this study they would have unearthed far richer information and I cannot imagine why there has been no follow up given how troubling the rest of the findings in this study are. When mainstream media puts us through interviews about the healthy diet of well known perpetrators of different forms of violence, it would be nice if it was balanced with other equally important information.

There exists an exclusive Sri Lankan report on this study that looks at the findings in Sri Lanka in depth. When reading the Sri Lanka report, a glaring error in the UN regional study is evident. The UN survey was conducted in nine countries and in some countries it was only conducted in specific areas. The UN report states “Most of the findings presented in the report refer to the nine research sites, except where the sample was national” and “The samples are representative of the selected sites, although in most sites are not nationally representative and not designed to represent the whole Asia-Pacific region”. What this means is that in some countries it was only conducted in certain areas and therefore the findings can only be applied to that area and not the whole country.

The Sri Lanka findings in the UN report are presented as ‘National’ – which means the findings are applicable to the whole of Sri Lanka. So when they say 14.5% of Sri Lankan men admit to rape that is correct. However, this is where the problem lies – the Sri Lanka study was conducted only in four districts (Colombo, Hambantota, Batticaloa and Nuwara Eliya) and the Sri Lanka report specifically states “Under this sampling design, the findings of the survey can be generalised to it’s sample population: men and women between the ages of 18 and 49 years living in the four study districts. Even though the survey provides valuable insight into the knowledge, attitudes and practices of men and women on issues of gender, masculinity and gender based violence, these specific findings cannot be generalised to the total Sri Lankan population”. Emphasis mine.

It may look like I am finding fault with a minor error but it is not – it is a grave error to present data that cannot be applied to the whole of Sri Lanka as national data. If the study was conducted in all 25 districts the figure 14.5% could easily be far higher or far lower – and this is the danger.

What was unfortunately lost with the uproar of the 14.5% rape figure were the significant findings that accompanied the data. The Sri Lanka report makes a disturbing and yet at the same time a useful reading because it reveals attitudes and mind sets of both men and women that have long been ignored in GBV and gender related programmes.

The findings highlighted below are mainly in relation to perpetrator history, intimate partner violence and women’s attitudes – and are just a few of many vital findings that should be discussed and incorporated into any planning around GBV and Gender related policy/programming/activity.

A few of the significant findings from Sri Lanka include –

  • 17% of males who participated in the study reported ever perpetrating sexual violence (including rape) against women or girls including partners and non-partners. 60.5% of these men were between the ages of 20-29 years when they first committed sexual violence. 28% were in the 15-19 age category.
  • One in five (20%) ever partnered men between ages of 18-49 years reported perpetration of sexual violence against intimate partners.
  • One in three in ever partnered men (36%) reported that they had committed physical and/ or sexual violence against an intimate partner in their lifetime.
  • The most common form of sexual violence was physically forcing a partner to have sexual relations against her will.
  • Men’s motivation for sexual violence? 66.5% said it was their sexual entitlement, 19.6% said it was for fun or because they were bored and 13.4% said it was out of anger or a form of punishment.
  • Men who experienced emotional, sexual or physical abuse during childhood were 1.7 to 2 times more likely to use violence against a female intimate partner than men who did not experience abuse.
  • Under reporting of intimate partner violence – just 13% of women who experienced IPV and 8% of women who experienced non- partner sexual violence reported this violence to the police.
  • Two thirds of the female sample (67%), as opposed to 55% of men also affirmed that ‘in any rape case, one would have to question whether the victim is promiscuous or has a bad reputation.’
  • Women’s attitudes reflect a deeper acceptance than men of social and cultural attitudes that discriminate against women. For example, 58% of women, compared to 41% of men, believed that a woman should tolerate violence in order keep the family together.

While these figures do not represent all men and women of Sri Lanka, the data is still extremely useful to get an idea of where we are with regard to Gender Based Violence and the attitudes that allow it to continue and grow the way it does. Like data driven journalism, data driven programming is also extremely necessary and often ignored by organisations working on GBV issues. This data is an excellent starting point in addressing some crucial interventions needed – from working on both men and women’s attitudes towards GBV, gender and identity, working with youth especially to combat GBV and attitudes towards women, the importance of recognising abuse of any form, whether emotional, physical or sexual and enabling educationists from the school level to a) recognise b) intervene and direct students towards support.

The percentage of men who admit to rape is not the most important highlight of this study and in fact it is information if collected through an opinion poll should not be presented as hard data. What is important and needs to be highlighted are the findings that accompany the perpetrators – their history, their reasons for doing so, what ages they are most vulnerable to this kind of behaviour and start our interventions from there, for if this study was conducted all island, I fear the 14.5% figure may be FAR higher.

  • Raj Swamipillai

    Whatever I my spend time reading on Groundviews, it is as if there is nothing good happening in SL.

    • Dev

      Read the Daily News/Sunday Observer -I do, every day !

    • anon

      If it were anything good I wouldnt come here and read it.

  • georgethebushpig

    Dear Soleil Noir,

    Does this statistic include child abuse?

    Regards
    GTBP

    • Dev

      I would think that the statistics would be worse if it were -unfortunately it is more prevalent than many are willing to acknowledge !

      • georgethebushpig

        Absolutely. The majority of my women friends have been sexually abused as kids, usually by family members. As for boys it’s probably even worse. You are right, there’s a conspiracy of silence around this sick behavior.

  • Ruwan

    Sri Lanka needs Gender Neutral Rape laws, especially for statutory rape. Currently the law does not recognize underage boys being victims, nor does it recognize sexual abuse committed by women against underage girls and boys.