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International Widows’ Day Celebrations of 2012 in Nedunkerny

A group of war widows in the Nedunkerny region of the Wanni District celebrated the International Widows’ Day on 22nd  June, 2012 at the  conference hall of the Nedunkerny Pradesa Sabai.  This meeting was organized by an NGO in collaboration with the relevant officers of the Divisional Secretary of Nedunkerny who  had arranged for the distribution  some material for income generation activities provided by NGOs. The funds for this meeting was provided by an UK based charity organization working  for  war affected children and widows. This meeting was attended by representatives of these organizations and  more than a hundred war widows  who had been invited  to commemorate  this day and listen to motivating speeches by experienced persons to give hope for these widows who had been rendered destitute by the recently concluded war.  Some of these widows made use of this opportunity to cry out the problems they are facing consequent to their re-settlement in this region.

Nedunkerny is situated midway on the road  from Vavuniya to Mullaitivu  and has suffered devastating consequences during the war.  Agriculture has been the prime occupation of the people who resided there prior to the escalation of the war.  Most of the residents of Nedunkerny had fled to other parts of the region when the fighting became intense.  According to the figures available at the Divisional Secretary’s Office, with the conclusion of the war 4000 families have returned to the region, many of whom had been re-settled.  A majority of them are women  who had lost their husbands and some of their children. Some of them have lost one or more of their limbs.   Most of them have even lost some of their family members.  There are 587 war widows among them, living within the 20 Grama Niladharis Divisions in the area. During the interaction by the relevant officials with these widows,  collaborative evidence was found on  a number of problems these widows are encountering since they returned to Nedunkerny.

Some of these problems are set out below:

The widows of Nedunkerny are only a sample of the  89,000 war widows  spread out in the North and the East of the country.  The problems identified could be more or less the same in most of the regions  in these provinces.

It was pointed out  in my  message read out at  this meeting  that according to a survey there are 245 million widows worldwide  of whom 100 million are in dire circumstances.  The UN Declaration of International Widows’ Day was the result of an initiative   taken at the UN General Assembly  in 2010  by the Loomba Foundation based in U.K.  It  is a recognized  international organization  caring for widows around the world.  I believe the Widows’ Day Celebrations in Nedunkerny  on 22nd June  is the first occasion that such a day was  celebrated in Sri Lanka.

The audience was reminded that this meeting should not be confined to just making speeches and going back to their usual lives thereafter, but should signal the beginning of a process that would eventually lead to making all the widows get over their dire circumstances and transform themselves  into women who could  meet  their own  needs from their own incomes.  Those who receive assistance for  income generation activities today should make every effort to get the maximum benefit out of their activities.  The widows have to remember that they are not a forgotten lot.  There are many who are very much concerned of  their well being.   What they should do to make their voice heard and  get recognition of their problems  is to form themselves into small groups or join the organizations that are working for them. They need to realize that if they raise their voice on their grievances jointly they would be heard by those at a greater  distance than by single voices crying out in the wilderness.  When their voice is loud enough even the State  will find it difficult to  ignore them.

Almost all widows are persons with some skill or the other.  They possess hidden and  untapped abilities. It should be the work of social service organizations and the State to  identify their abilities, provide the basic amenities and avenues  needed   to enable these widows to make use of their abilities  to alleviate their lives.  They need to be transformed from the category of persons who are  always waiting for someone to provide their needs,  to persons who can provide for themselves and for their  communities  using  their  own skills.

Let us hope  when the International Widows’ Day  celebrations are  held next year, there will be fewer widows at least in Nedunkerny,  who  would need assistance from the State or from other  organizations  and they would come forward to commemorate this occasion with  their own resources on their own volition.

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